In my experience, grief has no timeline. Things feel better and then something take us back to feelings we had at the time of the loss. It affects everyone differently and there is no right or wrong in where you are or how you feel. Wishing you peace as you travel this journey--give yourself grace.
Hey Jeremy. I'm still root'n for you and your family. I know you will always be stronger than this event, and the knowledge and memories will only be power in your wisdom and life moving forward. I agree with Martha Boon's post, let grief be grief. Easier said than done? That's why we're here for you to lean on. We gotchu.
That process you described of searching for and watching the video is exactly the process we went through. When we found video of our house on fire it both answered questions and haunted me. I have the screen shots saved, for what I'm not entirely sure.
John shared that video with me just yesterday. And I hear you, I'm not sure what to do with this information -- the sequencing -- either, or if it's helpful even. But maybe it is.
In my experience, grief has no timeline. Things feel better and then something take us back to feelings we had at the time of the loss. It affects everyone differently and there is no right or wrong in where you are or how you feel. Wishing you peace as you travel this journey--give yourself grace.
Thank you Martha.
Hey Jeremy. I'm still root'n for you and your family. I know you will always be stronger than this event, and the knowledge and memories will only be power in your wisdom and life moving forward. I agree with Martha Boon's post, let grief be grief. Easier said than done? That's why we're here for you to lean on. We gotchu.
That process you described of searching for and watching the video is exactly the process we went through. When we found video of our house on fire it both answered questions and haunted me. I have the screen shots saved, for what I'm not entirely sure.
John shared that video with me just yesterday. And I hear you, I'm not sure what to do with this information -- the sequencing -- either, or if it's helpful even. But maybe it is.
I’m sure I would be asking myself the same questions. Keep moving forward!
My heart hurts for you.